As for your female friends saying no, it's because they're not attracted to you. Girls don't wanna dance and rub their butts on guys they're not attracted to. It's just that some guys are really rude and disrespectful when trying to get someone to dance with them.
Share Facebook. Girls why do you go clubbing? Add Opinion. Everyone in this world has free will and intention. If a woman goes to a club of her own free will and intent - it does not equate to the intention of wanting to attract male attention. In fact, a lot of women myself included go out to dance to music and that's as far as it goes. Clubs are not about you - clubs are there as a medium for people to enjoy the night however they see fit.
It's not a female club-goers responsibility to make you feel wanted.. If you want to feel wanted - connect with yourself and learn to like yourself. Don't go looking into strangers eyes seeking acceptance. Don't generalise all women to want the same thing - that's lazy and untrue. And with that kind of attitude seething under the surface - that's a seed of frustration that you DON'T want to grow.
Just deal with your issues of acceptance and let the world do it's thing. Women don't owe you a dance, a smile or a conversation - just as much as a man doesn't owe me a relationship or a baby.
Cheers ;. Is this still revelant? If I am approached by a man it's all him. I could care less if I'm hit on or not because I can get that sort of attention anywhere. So, in saying that I hope the intent of your comment was not to speak for all women. Especially since your a man. I don't mean to attach you but, you inevitably proved my point to be correct. Please don't expect me to believe all the effort you go through to look nice is just to "socialise with friends They're 30 year old women.
They do still have it. Merried women almost know what they're doing! I know this I was dragged there. I was going to call it a night because I had just gotten out of a sports bar after watching the Cain Velasquez vs Nogueira fight but my friends wanted to hit up the club across the street so I just snagged some drinks and tried to humor my friends.
The club however was filled to the brim with scantily clad women old enough to be my mother. It kinda made me laugh and get sick at the same time. I respectfully disagree. I notice you're Just because people get older doesn't mean they don't enjoy going out with girlfriends to have a good time. Dancing is fun. In some cases, yes, it could be marital dissatisfaction, but if that was the case, they would WANT to dance with other men at the club, not reject them.
Women go to clubs 1 to socialize and 2 have fun and 3 because they are as human as the next person. When I was in juinor high along time ago I went to this school dance and a quiet dorky girl asked me to dance with her, but because I was young and cruel I laughed said no and then she burst into tears and ran off.
Ever since then I have been haunted by that memory and I vowed that no matter who asked me to dance with them that I would do it. Sometimes just 5 minutes of your time spent dancing with someone can really help a person who feels really depressed.
A lesson I won't soon forget. You have to realize that that is not their problem. I'm sorry that happened to you in jr high school, but even you admit that was a long time ago. That doesn't mean that a woman has to dance with you just because you feel they should spend 5 minutes of their time dancing with someone they don't want to dance with.
If you are depressed you need to seek help instead of worrying about dancing. Some guyonline just got served There is nothing wrong with the way my friend looks he's just a little shy. Plus I'm not saying women shouldn't go have fun, it's just the club should be a place to meet people not just hang out with your group.
The club is nothing but over priced drinks and loud pop music if your not trying to meet people I don't know why you would even want to go unless you like the smell of smoke in your clothes and a loud ringing in your ears. I think it's only guys and random girls who don't know better, who go to clubs to meet people.
It was just an observation as the clubs I go to are filled with year olds. If the person above is actually in her 30s, that is pretty sad. I mean the writing that is. I don't exactly know. I met my ex at school. I went to this club last night with a few friends and every girl my friend tried to talk to or dance with said she was married or had some retarded excuse for why she couldn't dance with him for one song.
I live in Utah which is already a miserable place for singles so why the hell do married or uninterested girls go clubbing? Are these women just depressed insecure alcoholics or is there something more that I'm missing?
Share Facebook. Why do married women in their 30's go clubbing? Although nightclubs are a seemingly new concept the power behind their pull is as old as society itself — and so if a club wishes to be successful it is important for its managers to understand the strength of the psychological impact nightclubs have. With the most popular clubs already managing to establish the precise atmosphere which exploits psychological attraction of the venues through the usage of multiple techniques.
One of the primary and most basic reasons why people go to nightclubs is dance culture. Humans have an inherent enjoyment of dance and many societies incorporate dance as a large aspect of entertainment, socialisation and progression. It has therefore been hypothesised that dance is used as one of the techniques in which people create chemistry towards each other as women dance in order to encourage men to dance as they want to learn more about them and see if there is a mutual connection.
There is also a link between male dancing and male fighting ability which would explain why a woman would wish to observe a man dancing before deciding whether he is a good match for her.
She would like to know whether he would be capable of defending her and her children but without actually seeing him fight as this would result in numerous damages. If we assume that this is true then dance is a key feature of the mating ritual and consequently a designated area where people can dance such as a nightclub which becomes an important location.
A lek is a physical space where males of a species congregate in order to impress females. A study by Hendrie et al.
Men were more likely to approach women employing suggestive dancing as a sexual signalling mechanism. Essentially the study found that the nightclub can be viewed as a lek as there are many observed forms of sexual signalling and many ways for the sexes to approach each other based on this signalling.
From this it can be suggested that one of the reasons why people go to nightclubs is because these are venues which make it easy to find a partner Even if it is just temporarily. Therefore you may be drawn to nightclubs even subconsciously as from an evolutionary perspective they are an optimal place to find a partner. A further potential reason behind why people go to nightclubs has been suggested to be the expression of oneself.
When a person goes on a night out it is highly likely that they will dress up and make sure that they look their best.
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